John's Blog

Disagreements in partnerships are great. If you agreed on everything, one of you would be disposable.

Art-centered, not artist-centered creation.

Always tip street musicians.

On a first date, tally their use of “always” and “never.” Very important data point.

A minute is a minute duration of time.

When rejecting an invitation from a friend, never say that you’re busy. Busy just implies that there are many things you value above them.

Before you leave for lunch, write down what you’re going to do when you come back. Let your unconscious think it over while enjoying some company and carbs.

The goal is uninhibited self-expression.