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Author Archives: John
Opt-Out
Everything great in life should be opt-out, not opt-in.
Better Decisions
Delay your intuition.
Confirmation Bias
Confirmation bias is especially deadly because we cannot prove anything with confirming examples; induction will fail us. The proposition that all swans are white is not confirmed by seeing another white swan. Examples can never prove us correct, only wrong. While we ignore the one black swan out of the 1,000 we see, that one swan proves that our proposition was incorrect. We never confirm, only disprove.
Necessary Preconditions
Your mental and physical health are a necessary precondition for everything else in your life.
Listening
Are you listening with a conclusion?
Are you listening with your knowledge?
Are you listening with your memories and experiences?
Are you listening with impatience?
Are you listening with a craving for an answer?
Or are you listening?
Clarity is the gap between what is said and your reaction to what is said.
Randomness
We don’t accept that randomness plays a role in our success, only our failures.
Fragility
It is easier to break things than to build them.
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